I sware, this is not an English Grammar Lesson hahaha:)
I bet you all have found yourself thinking about these...
The thing is..
I found my self thinking and worrying about these too..
A THOUSAND TIMES..
You see.
People experience things in the Past and sometimes the past keeps them held back..
or better.. Keeps them chained back and makes them worry about their future..
Some of the experiences left footprints in their heart.. Some still make them wonder...
I find it hard to forget my past and focus on my present and my future..
Sometimes things happen.. And they bring you back to your past..
And all the effort and belief you had put in forgetting about it.. Is GONE just like that..
I've learned though..
That you can replace some things from the past with things from the present and make everything happier..
Don't forget that the past is already gone and some of the things (If not all).. You cant change them..
But hey? Why not make them better?
Lets just say you broke up with your loved one in the past okay?
Go out! Meet people!
The right guy will come at the right time and make you forget all about that ex-lover of yours and no matter how much you loved the other guy.. You'll start to realize that this "right" guy is much more worth your love:3 So give him the chance:3 Throw away the past..
And just to let you know.. "Love comes at the end"
That means.. It comes when you are not even waiting for it..
Maybe even when you completely abandon the idea of searching for it:)
Now.. The present..
Who never worries about the present?
You get anxious if you'll pass your exams, you'll get anxious when you are about to be late, you worry about if you'll make up with your friend that you've recently got in a fight with..
And these are just some examples...
But honestly..
Have you ever thought of making the best of your present?
Go take that friend of yours that you've had a fight with and make it up to them:) Go with them somewhere nice and have fun or like pay them a drink and sit there and talk.. or like.. Study really hard for the exams and have a short break and meet up with your friends or girlfriend/boyfriend.. There are simple stuff you can do to make your present happier too :3 Trust me:) And make the better out of it
Now for the future..
I've heard a lot of people getting sooo anxious about the future..
That they wont get married because they dont have a boyfriend or girlfriend.. That they wont find a job because there are no jobs out there (and they say it like 6 years before)...
Relax..
The only thing i need to advise you is DREAM BIG.
In dreams there isn't a limit..
Lets just say i wanna be the best doctor in england or something...
It's not enough to say it..
YOU NEED TO WORK ON IT.
You need to BELIEVE and WORK HARD to accomplish it..
And who knows that you wont be married? They are like 16 and they say this..
Honestly.. after so many years until you are finally ready to get married, you'll meet thousands of people and you'll find him/her.. you cant say that and worry about it from your 16th year;3 And the same goes to the job thing.. Until you finish the University, who knows what will happen?
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I hope you liked this guyss ^.^
These are some of my personal thoughts about this subject:3
Tell me your opinion^.^
Sorry it came a bit longgg :/
I hope this helps you through cuz i've been thinking and worrying about these..
But I've thought it better and i've came up with these realizations :)
Sorry if this is not really interesting I promise It'll get better:)
I bet you all have found yourself thinking about these...
The thing is..
I found my self thinking and worrying about these too..
A THOUSAND TIMES..
You see.
People experience things in the Past and sometimes the past keeps them held back..
or better.. Keeps them chained back and makes them worry about their future..
Some of the experiences left footprints in their heart.. Some still make them wonder...
I find it hard to forget my past and focus on my present and my future..
Sometimes things happen.. And they bring you back to your past..
And all the effort and belief you had put in forgetting about it.. Is GONE just like that..
I've learned though..
That you can replace some things from the past with things from the present and make everything happier..
Don't forget that the past is already gone and some of the things (If not all).. You cant change them..
But hey? Why not make them better?
Lets just say you broke up with your loved one in the past okay?
Go out! Meet people!
The right guy will come at the right time and make you forget all about that ex-lover of yours and no matter how much you loved the other guy.. You'll start to realize that this "right" guy is much more worth your love:3 So give him the chance:3 Throw away the past..
And just to let you know.. "Love comes at the end"
That means.. It comes when you are not even waiting for it..
Maybe even when you completely abandon the idea of searching for it:)
Now.. The present..
Who never worries about the present?
You get anxious if you'll pass your exams, you'll get anxious when you are about to be late, you worry about if you'll make up with your friend that you've recently got in a fight with..
And these are just some examples...
But honestly..
Have you ever thought of making the best of your present?
Go take that friend of yours that you've had a fight with and make it up to them:) Go with them somewhere nice and have fun or like pay them a drink and sit there and talk.. or like.. Study really hard for the exams and have a short break and meet up with your friends or girlfriend/boyfriend.. There are simple stuff you can do to make your present happier too :3 Trust me:) And make the better out of it
Now for the future..
I've heard a lot of people getting sooo anxious about the future..
That they wont get married because they dont have a boyfriend or girlfriend.. That they wont find a job because there are no jobs out there (and they say it like 6 years before)...
Relax..
The only thing i need to advise you is DREAM BIG.
In dreams there isn't a limit..
Lets just say i wanna be the best doctor in england or something...
It's not enough to say it..
YOU NEED TO WORK ON IT.
You need to BELIEVE and WORK HARD to accomplish it..
And who knows that you wont be married? They are like 16 and they say this..
Honestly.. after so many years until you are finally ready to get married, you'll meet thousands of people and you'll find him/her.. you cant say that and worry about it from your 16th year;3 And the same goes to the job thing.. Until you finish the University, who knows what will happen?
---------------------------------------
I hope you liked this guyss ^.^
These are some of my personal thoughts about this subject:3
Tell me your opinion^.^
Sorry it came a bit longgg :/
I hope this helps you through cuz i've been thinking and worrying about these..
But I've thought it better and i've came up with these realizations :)
Sorry if this is not really interesting I promise It'll get better:)
